If youâre miserable and feel like you may be trans, you are trans. Start slow if youâd like, but try playing around with presentation, no matter what gender, serve it fiercely. If youâre in a safe enough environment, let them have it. Serve it ancient city style on the JMZ.Â
I know itâs corny but itâs genuinely so freeing to just do what you like. In the last year I started to really embrace my gender identity especially with my physical appearance. Being able to freely dress as you please and express yourself is so incredibly freeing. My confidence has sky rocketed. Being willing to express yourself regardless of societal pressure to appear a strict way. Be out there be bold!!!
You can be a grungy, graffiti adjacent, Abes Pagoda, Bushwick Princess For a few years and then transport to a high heel wearing, velvet lounge drinking, networking warrior. Itâs your life and itâs ok to play characters.
Honestly the best way to reinvent yourself is just to live. Being in a new place with new people will expose you to so many amazing things you never would have been aware off if you stayed at home.
Big tip is to just try things, figure out what you like without the pressure of feeling like you have to keep up a performance! try new outfit styles, new hair do, new clubs and hobbies just get out there and experience everything!
Itâs freeing I can promise you. Slightly scary at times but the best thing I was ever told was feel the fear and do it anyway.
Yall need to stop drinking lmao its soooooooo nasty. Like are you okay? You donnnnt need vodka 4 times a week. Learn to be cute sober. Itâs more powerful. That being said, Iâm an alcoholic and drank excessively for 13 years so ://// I get it. But once you harness your sober powers you can do anything.Â