Put everything in one big pile in the middle of the room. If you have a lot of stuff itâs going to look and feel insaneâthis is good because itâll make you aware of how much you have. Sort everything into three piles: a pile for yes, a pile for maybe, a pile for no. After youâve finished go through the maybe pile and be critical, discerning, decisive, erring towards no as much as possible. Once youâve gone through the maybe pile and have your two yes and no piles, put everything from the no pile in bags or boxes to give away. Find a place or devise a solution to store everything in the yes pile in an organized and clutter-free manner where itâs tucked neatly away. If you canât find a place for everything you either have to get more creative or get rid of more stuff! Then make a habit of putting everything away when you're finished using it and cleaning a little bit every day as maintenance.
organize and pack everything by what room they go in even if similar things are separated (ex: living room books donât go with bedroom books, bathroom jewelry doesnât go with bedroom jewelry) so that you can just unpack one room at a time instead of having things from multiple rooms in one box and then having to bounce around to unpack it. much less chaotic this way and easier to see progress/feel productive.
Consider the things that take up space in your home. do you use them? do you need them? do they spark joy? would you move with it? if the answerâs in the negative, consider getting rid of it. itâs just stuffâŚ
if u find yourself always having a messy room, it helps to identify *what* the mess is comprised of and *why* those things donât end up in their place. then experiment with rearranging and choosing new spots for organizing things into, specifically in a manner that you think will lower the threshold of effort that it takes to put the thing away in its spot the first time you put it down. continue to assess and repeat
My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebodyâbe it a relative or one of my best friendsâwas to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too đ