Usually I start out by just chatting and connecting. Smiling a lot, making eyecontact the usual jazz. Then once they know that I have a general liking for them, I put them down a little about something silly and challenge them to prove themselves. Works most of the time. Straight men love to prove themselves, I love to laugh at them while they try. I climb, so very often its sth about challenging them to do a certain incredibly hard climb and when they ultimately fail making a big fuzz about how dissappointed you are in them and how you had such high hopes that they failed to meet. If they succeed, you say sth about how you always believed in them but how you could also easily do so (and you flex your bicep or sth). IMPORTANT HERE IS THAT IT IS CLEAR THAT YOU ARE JOKING THE WHOLE TIME AND TO SNEAKILY GIVE COMPLIMENTS IN BETWEEN. We aren't trying to break people's confidence. We are just doing an ironic dick measuring competition.
Dec 5, 2024
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people love talking about the things they love- and worse comes to worse- singing randomly will confuse them enough to make you seem endearing or at least get a laugh out of them-
May 27, 2025
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especially when its regarding a question about myself… i love to know how they perceive me... like the little trickster creature i am... cause there is a right and wrong answer…
Mar 7, 2024
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i'm probably not the best person to take advice from, but when i'm interested in getting to know someone i like to pay a sincere compliment to either their appearance (outfit, hair) or their general vibe. worst case you just made someones day, because who doesn't love compliments, best case you start a conversation
Mar 11, 2024
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As y'all might know, I'm a climber. Which is fun, cute, sexy and I recommend everyone to become one. Only downside is that it's def a male dominated sport. There's plenty of girls who climb, but a large majority (in our gym) is male. Meaning that the likelihood of going on an outdoor climbing trip without men.. is small. Unless, of course, you organise a girls-only climbing trip. I would highly recommend doing so. Men r great but it's also nice to only be surrounded by girls who know what's it like to climb when you have a menstrual cycle and don't have a natural knack for dynamic power. Made me feel supported, seen and connected.
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Feels like the adult alternative to sleepovers as a kid. Telling eachother your deepest secrets and scariest truths while laying in the dark. Seeing the hours on your clock pass steadily, knowing it'll be a bitch to wake up in the morning but thinking that it's worth it.
Sep 18, 2024