so i think if you like the idea of pastry-ish perfumes you should definitely go for a vanilla scent!! this is kind of niche but theres this company called ginger june candle co that sells a perfume oil called āvanilla oakā and it smells AMAZING. its about to be discontinued tho so get your hands on it asap!! however if you want a spray perfume, anthropologie sells a nice vanilla scent that comes in two sizes
another good option (more on the floral side, but still light and sweet) is la vie est belle from lancĆ“me!! its absolutely HEAVENLY and def isnāt too dramatic for everyday use (+ the bottle is adorable)