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Ever since I saw that Tiktok trend of peopleâs partners picking their pomegranate seeds for them and prepping them for the week it hasnât left my mind. The whole concept was like, âFind someone who will be excited to pick out the pomegranate seeds for you so you can just enjoy the fruit.â I have been wondering how long iâll be prepping my own pomegranates. Thinking of couples I know in my life who would probably do the same for each other. Exes of mine who wouldnât dare. Etc. It made me sad and reminded me that solitude sometimes doesnât have an expiration date. But, Iâll keep prepping my own pomegranates!!!! At least I can do it!!! and well! I barely get any white parts in it and I did it 3 minutes faster than I did a few days ago. I have my own method and everything.
Dec 11, 2024
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chilly_olive_heron Islice it into 6 parts and just pop em out! Iknow people have faster versions with wooden spoon methods etc, but I find the time it takes quite meditative hahaha
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Canât wait to invite friends over for a dolma-making night!
Also so into these spooky skeleton grape leaves that have been destroyed by beetles.
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đ„I like using the little peeler tool. So satisfying. I was peeling so good my wife called me her âsous-chefâ hahaha
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đMy friend today asked me an amazing question. He said, âDo you think the avoidance thing is specific to our generation or LA specific? Like is someone in Arkansas thinking about anxiety?â
Obviously yes someone in Arkansas is thinking of anxiety haha but it made me really think. Our generation is HORRIBLE (me included) at facing shit and taking accountability. Itâs all masked underneath this âtherapy talkâ shit.
Hear me out. Letâs say you have a friend and youâre feeling conflict/tension with them. After a few weeks of them being mean, you confront them about it. Theyâre passive and not addressing their actions. We would INSTANTLY write them off as âAVOIDANTâ versus âA friend whoâs hurting me by being shitty even if they donât intend to.â
And yes, that friend is being âavoidantâ. But, thatâs a simple write off for behavior. Behavior has been so quickly written off to fit into this Therapy Talk.
Hereâs another example: A girl who really likes someone is attaching to them quickly because sheâs excited to get to know them and is having so much fun, sheâs moving faster than usually and trying to rush commitment. Society would consider her âAnxiously attachedâ versus âThis girl is really into this person and itâs shifting her choices and actions.â
I think what iâm getting at is, it seems dismissive and avoidant to just simplify these big feelings and actions into these terms when in reality, yes the terms are true. But, we should probably be making space to really talk and express in full detail a persons actions including our own, and get to the bottom of it. The categories can be apart of the larger narrative, but they arent the full reasoning.
I hope this made sense lol
Obviously yes someone in Arkansas is thinking of anxiety haha but it made me really think. Our generation is HORRIBLE (me included) at facing shit and taking accountability. Itâs all masked underneath this âtherapy talkâ shit.
Hear me out. Letâs say you have a friend and youâre feeling conflict/tension with them. After a few weeks of them being mean, you confront them about it. Theyâre passive and not addressing their actions. We would INSTANTLY write them off as âAVOIDANTâ versus âA friend whoâs hurting me by being shitty even if they donât intend to.â
And yes, that friend is being âavoidantâ. But, thatâs a simple write off for behavior. Behavior has been so quickly written off to fit into this Therapy Talk.
Hereâs another example: A girl who really likes someone is attaching to them quickly because sheâs excited to get to know them and is having so much fun, sheâs moving faster than usually and trying to rush commitment. Society would consider her âAnxiously attachedâ versus âThis girl is really into this person and itâs shifting her choices and actions.â
I think what iâm getting at is, it seems dismissive and avoidant to just simplify these big feelings and actions into these terms when in reality, yes the terms are true. But, we should probably be making space to really talk and express in full detail a persons actions including our own, and get to the bottom of it. The categories can be apart of the larger narrative, but they arent the full reasoning.
I hope this made sense lol
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