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Ever since I saw that Tiktok trend of people’s partners picking their pomegranate seeds for them and prepping them for the week it hasn’t left my mind. The whole concept was like, “Find someone who will be excited to pick out the pomegranate seeds for you so you can just enjoy the fruit.” I have been wondering how long i’ll be prepping my own pomegranates. Thinking of couples I know in my life who would probably do the same for each other. Exes of mine who wouldn’t dare. Etc. It made me sad and reminded me that solitude sometimes doesn’t have an expiration date. But, I’ll keep prepping my own pomegranates!!!! At least I can do it!!! and well! I barely get any white parts in it and I did it 3 minutes faster than I did a few days ago. I have my own method and everything.
Dec 11, 2024
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Feb 25, 2025
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I like using the little peeler tool. So satisfying. I was peeling so good my wife called me her “sous-chef” hahaha
Feb 26, 2025
I had a kiwi the other day, it was all that was left in the fruit basket of the co-working space that I frequent. It was probably the first kiwi I have eaten since primary school.
It was absolutely delicious.
It also served as a gentle reminder that it is easy to fall victim to the monotony of routine. Change your habits! You WILL be rewarded!
Feb 22, 2024
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My friend today asked me an amazing question. He said, “Do you think the avoidance thing is specific to our generation or LA specific? Like is someone in Arkansas thinking about anxiety?”
Obviously yes someone in Arkansas is thinking of anxiety haha but it made me really think. Our generation is HORRIBLE (me included) at facing shit and taking accountability. It’s all masked underneath this ”therapy talk” shit.
Hear me out. Let’s say you have a friend and you’re feeling conflict/tension with them. After a few weeks of them being mean, you confront them about it. They’re passive and not addressing their actions. We would INSTANTLY write them off as “AVOIDANT” versus “A friend who’s hurting me by being shitty even if they don’t intend to.”
And yes, that friend is being “avoidant”. But, that’s a simple write off for behavior. Behavior has been so quickly written off to fit into this Therapy Talk.
Here’s another example: A girl who really likes someone is attaching to them quickly because she’s excited to get to know them and is having so much fun, she’s moving faster than usually and trying to rush commitment. Society would consider her “Anxiously attached” versus “This girl is really into this person and it’s shifting her choices and actions.“
I think what i’m getting at is, it seems dismissive and avoidant to just simplify these big feelings and actions into these terms when in reality, yes the terms are true. But, we should probably be making space to really talk and express in full detail a persons actions including our own, and get to the bottom of it. The categories can be apart of the larger narrative, but they arent the full reasoning.
I hope this made sense lol
Nov 27, 2024
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anything and everything anytime whenever planned or not
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