- a bag of rice from your pantry
- bundle of overdried eucalyptus
- a silk scarf, or several pairs of gently used socks
- zippo lighter
- no drip no smoke tapered candles
- assortment of edible seeds in a shaker
- take them out for oyster happy hour, your treat!
- find some relevant to them poems and memorize / recite them to their face with eye contact
when i have no idea what to gift i get candles (cute ones, fresh likable ones), maybe cake, cookies, something engraved with their name to make it a bit more personal 🫀
Dope to be giving. You can know the person, or maybe not, too. Flowers are classics for the homemaker types. But the best is something really small and thoughtful. Nothing fancy or spendy. Just that shows em that you know em and and came across something that they'd like or that reminded you of them. This is sweet I think to do this :) also cool to like give some of your fav clothes to your brothas /sistas/ siblangs