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Ins/OUts

not finished… ins ~ • personal style • being upfront • live music • physical media • crafts/personalizing everything • trusting your intuition • blue eyeshadow (in a 1960s way) • niche playlists • talking to strangers • pocket-sized notebooks • pattern mixing • spontaneous trips • messy hair • doing it for the memoir outs ~ • being late • black and white mentality • being embarrassed • oversharing • toxic friendships • diet soda • vaping • impulsive shopping • dating apps • letting myself spiral • doing it for the plot • fear of being perceived

@novadoodle

Jan 20, 2025

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the ins and outs i can think of

-> ins - enjoying time alone - listening to newer music - being a better friend - practicing my instruments more - reading rather than skimming - creativity - making an actual covers account? -> outs - losing myself to the same computer routine - living the same day over and over - waiting for things to happen to me - misery

@sebbspirit

Jan 15, 2025

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ins & outs / 2025

in  creating for fun — alone & w/friends sharing online without self judgement  flirting w/no expectation deactivating w/no reason intentional friendships community as a verb following my own timeline completing books mindful journaling collecting hobbies like shells straightforwardness  game nights  internal validation thoughtful approach to physical affection home cooked meals asking for favors  financial independence  multiple streams of income  healthy dose of delusion  intense eye contact  intentional dates  out over self indulgence in rest  non reciprocal relationships over explaining  overthinking shit that doesn’t require an overthought  self inflicted emotional sadism  frivolous spending  babying men — in the workplace & in friendships  keeping clothing items that have been unworn for months  random hookups  living paycheck to paycheck keeping the peace in toxic environments wishing ppl who did you wrong well after (in fact were not even gonna wish them anything) after hours 

@rayfulosunshine

Jan 23, 2025

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screen free walks

one of my friends gave me one of these bad boys for my birthday and it is perhaps one of the best gifts I’ve received. they knew my struggle with wanting to listen to music on my morning walks while resisting the urge to use my phone first thing. they burned a few of my playlists and theirs onto tapes and it feels so much more nostalgic, personal, and conversational. listening to a tape all the way through without skipping is a lost treasure trove for mindfulness imo. pretty affordable and easy to rig burning cassettes or buying from the thrift :)

@care

Dec 18, 2024

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raspberry lemonade WITH PULP

truly any homemade berry lemonade—extra sour and refreshing served in a two hands width jar

@care

Dec 21, 2024

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ASKING FOR BOTH SNACKS ON THE PLANE

if you ask for both politely they never say no. why choose between pretzels and a cookie when you could have both? - the world is your oyster.

@care

Dec 26, 2024