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As a Trans, I believe in Ariel Pink's gender dysphoria. This song technically came out right at the end of 2023. I heard it while on a run early in the morning in Setagaya City, Tokyo. In the track, Pink sings, "When I was born, something went wrong. They told me I was lucky-- I came this close to being a girl. But IĀ wantĀ to be a girl." I absolutely believe his dysphoric yearnings, and detect no sign of post-woke edgelordism. I think it's probably very common, yet hardly documented, when men feel like they want to be a girl, ultimately deciding to remain with their birth gender. In fact, I think this sentiment is rather trans-affirming. As one male friend of mine said of his COVID-era gender experience: "I couldn't decide if IĀ wantedĀ 'Her', or wanted toĀ be 'Her.'" It's a brave stance to portray in a song, one that edges on Macklemore's "When I was in the 3rd grade, I thought that I was gay", but with all the heart and none of the corny virtue signaling. AndĀ it's wayyyy too catchy.Ā
Dec 30, 2024
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as a trans man i fucking adore this song. it just feels so inherently trans masc coded (as i presume its supposed to feel) and it makes me feel so understood. thank you lorde <3
Jun 2, 2025
Historically, I have been too insecure to be a girl. That pressure of prettiness, of being delicate, of being desirable. I refused to engage. But this year something has shifted. I love cardigans, I want to talk about how I do my hair, I learned how to do make-up. Even though I'm not a model, I adore making myself feel pretty and sexy. I'm falling in love with the culture of feminism, and reclaiming mother earth as a mother. Girlhood is something so insanely precious and now, despite it being so hard, I am so unbelievably grateful I get to experience it. Want to merge my soul with every woman on the planet and scream OH HOW I LOVE BEING A WOMAN!
Jan 17, 2025
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one day i'm a fairy princess, the next i'm a little boy from newsies, another i'm a douchey teenage skaterboy from the 2000s, then i'm bella swan. love being undefinable. happy pride my fellow gender non-conforming pals š«¶š»
Jun 4, 2025
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I watched the sunrise every morning this past week in Mexico. When I looked to my left and right, everyone was taking photos of it. Iām very anti āPut your phone away and enjoy the showā vibes, I think thatās pretentious and naive. BUT: when itās something as simple and common as a sunrise, the effect actually IS better if you just let it all in IRL. Because you probably will never look at that photo again. If you can google image search something, why would you need an image of it?
Nov 21, 2023
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I think this song gets a bad rap. Sure, it was overplayed, and probably got way bigger than it should of. But that style of indie pop has such potential to be clean, highly danceable, catchy bliss. Taking notes from Neon Trees for next Frost projectā¦
Nov 17, 2023
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Eat a fried egg with a sliced up banana in the same biteā¦ pure illegal pleasure
Nov 4, 2023