is that a vice? i have a habit to not tell people of my feelings and opinions. instead, i’ll write mails for them that i never got to send, and probably will never send it. it’s just there collecting dust in my drafts.
Jan 1, 2025
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I had a good idea for a rec but it got lost in time so now all I have is regrets for not writing it down
Nov 5, 2023
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When I’m all alone I like to speak out loud what I’m thinking (usually in an accent) and record it on my voice memo app. It’s easier than sitting down to write in a diary and you then have a log of snippets into your world at that place and time to look back on (or not)
Mar 21, 2024
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Only the most sentimentally or pragmatically valuable items survive the purge. I keep important documents inside of an old MacBook box in a trunk and I keep little scraps in an old Costco holiday cookie tin or in the pocket of a Moleskine journal. Kind of deranged of me but I’ve always done this and I’m more of a digital archivist
May 20, 2025
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i have always known this. that people come and go. but it was only recently that this statement really… struck me. i guess that no matter how much you want people to stay in your life, sometimes it‘s just inevitable. though it was hard at first to let go of ‘your person’, i also realized that relationships are maintained by more than just one person.
so no matter how much you want to keep those people in your life, to save the relationship and connection that you have, at the end of the day, they also have a say in what they feel and what they want. and if what they want is to be out of your life, then the best thing that you could do is to accept and respect that.
it’s the best thing that you could do. not only for them, but also for you.
Dec 31, 2024
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nothing beats the aftermath feeling of hanging out with your homies that you haven’t seen for a long while, knowing that you had a well spent day with the right people.
my heart is full.
Jan 3, 2025
people have their own way to capture memories, and mine is to capture it through film!
there’s just something romantic about capturing moments with film camera. the knowledge that once you press that shutter button, there’s no going back. there is no retakes, or trying to check if it was out of focus. you just hope that you got the aperture right and there‘s enough lighting to perfectly capture the moment right there and then.
here’s one of my favorite films captured in 2024! oh how i wish i could attach more than just one pic here.
Jan 1, 2025