Might I recommend getting clip magnets so you can clip up letters or notes you have to remember or bills you have to pay. A cool candy wrapper. Some business cards you’ll most likely never look at but have pretty logos. old photos of distant relatives. Or ones you didn’t get to meet but you were holding the photograph for your mom and then decided to keep it. Postcards. Drawings from friends. polaroids with friends
this idea of "you don't owe anyone anything" came about through the social media therapists that try to diagnose complete strangers with a multitude of issues and complexes. all it has done has made selfish people more selfish and divided us as a community. you do not owe everyone everything, but if you consider yourself part of a community, a society, you do owe everyone something. at a base level you owe people kindness, respect (as long as they haven't lost the right to it), and basic human decency. you owe your loved ones even more. stop being selfish and rude in the name of treating your so-called "people pleasing."
