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This morning I had a date for the first time in a million years and I was scared and hadn’t slept so I called my friend crying and together we talked whilst I got ready. We agreed that I would just do my best and accept whatever happened even if it was weird or embarrassing because it’s fine to do things scared. Then I walked out the front door in my cute little outfit with my hair and makeup done like nothing whatsoever was wrong and I had that damn date and it was kinda stilted and he didn’t text me after but it was essentially fine 💃🏻
Jan 12, 2025
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bee1000 thank you! i did text in the end just a breezy little thanks and he responded 🫨 ! to he continued I guess …
Jan 13, 2025
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😃i felt so wiped i considered cancelling the first date i scheduled with a girl. but i made a couple cups of coffee, showered, powered through. and we collaged the whole night away, talking and laughing and staying up til we fell asleep together on my couch at 5AM. her voice is so lovely. i haven’t felt so Myself with someone new in so long.
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🎟a girl from my school started dm-ing me on insta and since it was pretty tame stuff (like literally no signs she was into me) I was sure that she just wanted to be friends with me. she seemed pretty cool so I dm-ed her back and we talked for a couple days before she asked me if I wanted to catch a movie with her. I said yes. what was the movie you ask?
all of us strangers.
by that point, I was still somehow clueless. we met up, she hugged me, we walked to the theatre, we got snacks, we sat down, we watched the movie, it was all pretty normal friendly stuff. I even ended up crying (to be fair I'm not sure who wouldn't cry at that movie).
it was only after the fact that I was informed by our mutual friend that she was apparently into me and that was supposed to be a date. I ended up just asking to be friends and we haven't spoken since :,)
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♥️Guys I hung out with a boy and I tried so hard to be cool and fun but I think I flopped. I had a good time but I just think I flopped. It’s ok to flop sometimes. Everything is going to be ok. ♥️
The good thing is that I was so scared to do it and I faced my fears. Hopefully someday I will meet someone who will want to see me more than one (1) time.
This one goes out to all of my nervous girlies <3 I see u and I am u
The good thing is that I was so scared to do it and I faced my fears. Hopefully someday I will meet someone who will want to see me more than one (1) time.
This one goes out to all of my nervous girlies <3 I see u and I am u
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- if you’re the sort of person who cares about diet and fitness, establish those routines in your 20s - live where you wanna live. Don’t live somewhere you hate because you think you’ll have more fun later cos you won’t - get a job that makes reliable money that you can tolerate and go back to if your dreams fall through. It doesn’t have to be a dream job it just has to pay the rent and not make you sad - don't smoke cigarettes
- use sunscreen
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- use sunscreen
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