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Like for real. Live in the moment!!!! I know itâs cheesy, but I let my teen years fly by in hopes of something better, and I regret it so much. Dive deeper into your interests, try new things, donât get too hung up on limitations!! Live to the fullest, just because youâre young doesnât mean you canât do everything!!
Jan 14, 2025
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đ¨Iâm about to turn 30 and idk if my 21 year old self would approve of where Iâm atâbut my 6 year old self sure as hell would!! I think a lot of life is finding your way back to Little You.
Being 21 is so so hard, and in college youâre first starting to see that you canât judge your progress based on other people. Even though thatâs how you were taught to judge yourself up until this point. The things you want now probably wonât matter to you in a few years, and for me that would have sounded terrifying at 21. But that doesnât mean the things you want now arenât important.
You can think of it in terms of tattoos. If you get a tattoo at 16 itâs not because you know it will represent you always and foreverâitâs to commemorate a moment, a feeling of boldness you wanted to wear proudly. And down the line you donât look at it with regret, but a softness for that younger part of you. Feel your feelings fully in this moment! Be bold with what you care about! Every age is special.
Practical advice: Try to listen to your body and not your head. Do I actually like how I feel spending time with this person? Am I going through the motions of this hobby because I think it will service something else? Does xyz come naturally to me, or does it feel forced? No action needed. This exercise isnât about flipping your life upside down, just take notice of how your body feels in certain situations. Start to notice when youâre in fight or flight versus happy and free. Find the ease and follow it
Being 21 is so so hard, and in college youâre first starting to see that you canât judge your progress based on other people. Even though thatâs how you were taught to judge yourself up until this point. The things you want now probably wonât matter to you in a few years, and for me that would have sounded terrifying at 21. But that doesnât mean the things you want now arenât important.
You can think of it in terms of tattoos. If you get a tattoo at 16 itâs not because you know it will represent you always and foreverâitâs to commemorate a moment, a feeling of boldness you wanted to wear proudly. And down the line you donât look at it with regret, but a softness for that younger part of you. Feel your feelings fully in this moment! Be bold with what you care about! Every age is special.
Practical advice: Try to listen to your body and not your head. Do I actually like how I feel spending time with this person? Am I going through the motions of this hobby because I think it will service something else? Does xyz come naturally to me, or does it feel forced? No action needed. This exercise isnât about flipping your life upside down, just take notice of how your body feels in certain situations. Start to notice when youâre in fight or flight versus happy and free. Find the ease and follow it
Jan 25, 2025
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đas a 25 year old who had just turned 21 right before the pandemic hit i often have very similar feelings that i missed out on a formative time of my youth and that im âbehindâ where i should be right now (especially in terms of self/identity development), whatâs helps me is i try to zoom my thoughts waaayyyy out and think about how when im older someday ill prob envy 25 year olds too and then i decide to just try my hardest to live in the moment forever and cherish being here in the first place cause in the grand scheme of things aging is a gift!!!! easier said than done of course but this is what helps me
Jul 12, 2024
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đor being any age really. youâre never gonna be that age again so you better make the most of it! everyone says being 23 and 24 is so boring but if you take your life into your hands and do what you want to do, you might just look back on being 23 and not regret a thing
4d ago
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âListen to Jockstrap. Itâs made up of Georgia Ellery (also in Black Country New Road) and Taylor Skye, and they go sooo hard. Georgia is the voice and plays multiple instruments while Taylor is more on the production side. I went to their Pitchfork Aftershow in Chicago last year and I have never had so much fun at a concert. Taylor sits onstage and literally just deejays the whole time (which is not a jab at him, he is a genius). Georgia sings, plays instruments, and performs for her LIFE. Itâs a must listen, must see, must know.
Here are some of my favorites of theirs;
- City Hell
- Glasglow
- Sexy 2
- 50/50 (Extended Mix)
- Hayley
LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN!!!
Jan 20, 2024
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âIâm not a mother and to be completely transparent I donât really want to be one ever. Something struck me so deep in my poetry class last semester that probably pushed me farther into not wanting children, poetry about motherhood. It must be my knack for empathy and passion that connects me so hard to these poems, who knows. I really really love these poems. âMetaphorsâ by Sylvia Plath and âthe motherâ by Gwendolyn Brooks, to name a few. There was an especially hard hitting one about being a stay at home mother, but itâs escaping me in the moment. If I remember it I will come back to this. I have an inkling that fellow women in their 20s may relate to this, and if not I would recommend going down a rabbit hole. Itâs existential but who doesnât love that?
Jan 20, 2024
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