Pain is a part of nature and the cycle of life
To complain and stress about pain is to complain about the beauty of life The beauty of life is not only the happy moments in life but the fact that something comes after,
Pain is part of what it means to be human
It is not the enemy Even if it was,
Acceptance and love for yourself will triumph everytime
An ideal world is one that knows no pain. That, sadly, is not the one we live in. Pain is a part of the human experienceābut failure to move on from it makes you miserable. If you dwell too much on what has happened, you will never be fulfilled enough to see all the good you have/ that is to come. Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequences of a situation. āAnd in fact, itās time to forsake someone elseās idea of what gives you a spark or no spark. Block the āotherā from the picture. No more audience. Just you.ā Whether you choose to take that responsibility (of acceptance), or give it up to the disappointments of life, you return to yourself. The choice is whether to wallow in the misery of that pain, or take it as it comes and look at what it has to offer you.
been working hard to internalize a quote i read online recently. it says āthe time will pass anyway whether i handle it emotionally or not⦠how utterly pointless to suffer so much & still choose to be miserableā. reminds me of that old Seneca quote, Something about the man who worries before necessary, suffers twice. when things already suck, i still have the option to be happy & make things better for myself. i know it sounds easier said than done but many times Iāve found myself rejecting this notion when a little bit of kindness towards myself, a deep breath & some patience wouldāve gotten me through. every Moment is an opportunity to turn things around & make myself happy. gratitude helps a lot w this. blurting This all out here coz i know itās an idea ill soon forget once im actually in the throes of a tough time āļø
The only thing to figure out is that there is nothing to figure out, you just exist.
You arenāt a project that has a final answer, you are a just person.
Even if there was such an answer, what if you never āfigure it outā? Will that stop you from living the life you want to live?
The answer to that question should always be no (unless youāre a scoundrel then control yaself)
Just existing isnāt the end of this, but choosing to live will be
Go get yourself some cute ass shit. Something thatās cute as hell that resonates with you. Recently just picked up this little bag for the gym/life, and Jesus the Little bear ears are so adorable what the hell. Care Bears are my personal favorite cute shits. bedtime bear n friend bear.
It snowed last night in my area, making the sidewalks wet on my way to school today(first day). As I walked in I forgot to fully wipe my shoes, resulting in me walking down the hallway sounding like spongebob with his annoying squeaky boots. bar for bar squeak for squeak. As awkward and embarrassing as it was, I just walked with a smile and laughed with the people in the hall. Awkward situations like this would cripple a younger me in the moment and after, but now they make me smile and laugh. They remind me everything ends up being okay in the end. Life continues on, memories fade, emotions go away. Taking life to seriously drags down some of the funniest moments in life, laugh at yourself and be you