this fit has been in heavy rotation the last month and includes a few of my wardrobe staples. it’s loosely inspired by a gorgeous look in the Maria Callas movie where she’s wandering Paris in all black wearing one long jangly necklace and a turtleneck.
♟️black cotton fisherman sweater
♟️black turtleneck
♟️black wideleg pants (tailored to crop)
♟️long john’s under, tucked into black socks
♟️black ankle boots
♟️black vest
♟️long necklace with two charms on it
♟️not pictured: black down coat and black knitted cap
Jan 21, 2025
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I love that jewelry was intentional in this outfit! I’m so often scared to wear jewelry in the winter, but I love the idea of making the outfit fit around the necklace
lyssdri I’ve found that embracing jewelry and a cute little neck-kerchief can really bring a simple / monochrome look to life. Embrace the glamour 💋
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