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When i don’t feel uncomfortable

I can wear really ‘uncomfortable’ clothing (heels, corset tops etc). If I don’t like to look at myself or feel uncomfortable in an outfit it is probably because I don’t like the way it looks. I often feel less comfortable in my “comfy” clothes than my going out clothes. Sensation of discomfort usually tells me I don’t like what I’m wearing. Otherwise, if I follow this format for my outfit I know I am set. For the day: long dress, ballet flats or sandals, bag and sunglasses that match the shoes and dress equally (either sunglasses match dress and bag matches shoes or vice versa). For night, little black dress and black boots, hoops and a statement bag. I’ll always feel stun if I wear this.

@jessisonline

Feb 8, 2024

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my Summer trend predictions

micro shorts...for some reason tight fitted t-shirts back again belts on skirts knit fabric flats??? so many sunglasses What I think should be in: mixing metals feminine linens hair styles and accessorizing dresses COLOR!!!

@ownerofyourfantasy

4d ago

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personal Style formulas

Any good outfit, for me, has an element that is masculine-coded, an element that is feminine-coded, and an element of sexiness/unexpectedness. Straight leg denim + Miu Miu ballet flats + a low-cut button down. An oversized crewneck + a mini skirt + a visible bra strap and kitten heels. It never fails.

@eternallyonline

Feb 24, 2024

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Starting over

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.” — Anaïs Nin This is uncharacteristically raw and personal, even for me, and pretty heavy! I know many of you have seen me posting through it and I feel safe to talk about it openly now that I’ve safely landed at the start of my new life. It’s honestly even a little bit embarrassing but I think it’s important to share. I’ve never publicly mentioned it on here, but I have a husband; as of Friday, we’d have been together for 11 years, and we’ve been married for 3 years as of 2/22. I realize now that I wanted to explore what I looked like outside of my relationship with him because I had lost that. This is why PI.FYI has been so meaningful to me as a space to express myself and connect with people—to rediscover my voice. I had been living a lie this entire time, to others but worst of all to myself. He’s been verbally and emotionally abusive, physically but without touching me, to the point that every day I spent with him I was in danger. I’ve been shrinking myself and walking on eggshells to avoid making him insecure and provoking his casual put-downs and fits of rage, while hanging on for dear life to the threads of good I could see. I’ve wanted so badly to leave, more than anything, but I felt like there was no way out and that this was just something I would need to endure indefinitely—but someone who is so very dear to me helped me see that I have wings to fly, not by acting as my savior but by reminding me of my own power. The emotional safety they built and the gentle care they showed me made me feel like I could open up to them. With their encouragement I was brave enough to tell the truth to my friends, my family, my boss, and they have received me with warm, loving and open arms and rallied to support and protect me. The financial and  logistical aspects were the most intimidating to me and it’s going to be tough for a while but I’m going to be better than okay! Now I’m opening up to you. This isn’t the only abuse I’ve suffered in my life, and my old therapist told me she believed it was my mission to share my strength and light with others to inspire them and show them that change is possible. I hope that by sharing this, I can reach even just one person who is going through something similar and show that they are not alone, and they are not weak. People with certain backgrounds may be more vulnerable to abuse, but it can happen to anyone. It thrives in darkness, shame, and isolation—and breaking that silence is the first step toward freedom. Leaving is the scariest thing I have ever done but I have so many angels around me, and I am endlessly grateful. Thank you for being here with me 💌

@taterhole

Mar 16, 2025

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Never changing

My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌

@taterhole

Feb 23, 2025

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Finally Quitting the job that you hate

Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅

@taterhole

Feb 27, 2025