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A few of my favorite and unfavorite things

Favs: A good spoon When someone cooks for me a Slice of cake that is not too sweet Sandwiches the smell of book stores Finding a treasure in a thrift store/yard/estate sale My book light High top converse family Recipes Sundresses Drinking wine while on a walk or at a park When a cat closes their eyes when you pet them Playing independent video games Going to the movies and eating popcorn the Beach when it’s early in the morning and it’s just dog walkers and surfers Coffee with floral syrups A pot of beans and fresh tortillas Honey Cinnamon Cardamom Salt Unfavs: Chocolate chip cookies without walnuts A utensil chewed up by a garbage disposal asmr videos, especially the nails tapping on things, why?? Milk Bright lights Microfiber cloth Pilling on clothing Static Mysteriously sticky surfaces Horseradish Paying extra for avocado hearing/seeing people chew with mouths open Being rude to service workers Losing my lip balm

@mijasmine

Jan 23, 2025

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Rias faves and unfaves

faves! -movie theaters, the carnival, aquariums and aviaries  -marvel (especially loki, gwenpool, and captain america)  -dean winchester -black box hair dye -white hot cocoa -that warm feeling you get in your stomach that bubbles up to your chest that feels like a hug from the inside  -new orleans and almaty  -coffee crisps, sandwiches, cheese, cheesecake, cherries… and DILL pickles.  -panthers, alligators, and swans (or just animals)  -the words lovely, toasty, picturesque, and ravishing -ranch -pineapple on pizza -diners -cherry limeades, arnold palmers, and tall boys -climbing under some warm blankets after being cold -toy tiaras  -pokemon!  -pda (but only if it’s with me) -alliterations  -biopics  -stripes -photobooths and photostrips -waking up with my cat -slight bostonian accents -espressos -off shoulder tops -moodboards -sight shopping  UNFAVES! -haikus and slam poetry  -lax- “modern” style art  -hiccups  -persimmons -spiders -peach flavored alcohol -brooches  -stickiness… especially sticky hands -sweet pickles

@yalakissed

Jan 23, 2025

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My favs and unfavs

Favorites: -purple -unisex/masculine leaning perfumes -shoes -the smell of books printed in the 90s -espresso -gin -dirty martinis -monthly planners -chickens! (live ones lol) -Italian wine -baseball (LGM) -rock music -cheese -pickles!! -bottomless brunch -dark chocolate -fresh flowers in vases -walking or doing dishes while maladptive daydreaming -freshly painted nails unfavorites: -artificial peach flavoring -the cold🥶 -wine from California or France -audiobooks (I respect them, they’re just too slow for me and sometimes the voices are so annoying) -Trump supporters -white chocolate -AI -stuffy noses -dirt under fingernails -the fact that I can’t wear knit hats because I have curly hair and it makes the top of my head frizzy or flat or both at the same time somehow -lemongrass -lavender in food or drinks This was such a cute prompt!!

@saylor

Jan 23, 2025

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Starting over

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.” — Anaïs Nin This is uncharacteristically raw and personal, even for me, and pretty heavy! I know many of you have seen me posting through it and I feel safe to talk about it openly now that I’ve safely landed at the start of my new life. It’s honestly even a little bit embarrassing but I think it’s important to share. I’ve never publicly mentioned it on here, but I have a husband; as of Friday, we’d have been together for 11 years, and we’ve been married for 3 years as of 2/22. I realize now that I wanted to explore what I looked like outside of my relationship with him because I had lost that. This is why PI.FYI has been so meaningful to me as a space to express myself and connect with people—to rediscover my voice. I had been living a lie this entire time, to others but worst of all to myself. He’s been verbally and emotionally abusive, physically but without touching me, to the point that every day I spent with him I was in danger. I’ve been shrinking myself and walking on eggshells to avoid making him insecure and provoking his casual put-downs and fits of rage, while hanging on for dear life to the threads of good I could see. I’ve wanted so badly to leave, more than anything, but I felt like there was no way out and that this was just something I would need to endure indefinitely—but someone who is so very dear to me helped me see that I have wings to fly, not by acting as my savior but by reminding me of my own power. The emotional safety they built and the gentle care they showed me made me feel like I could open up to them. With their encouragement I was brave enough to tell the truth to my friends, my family, my boss, and they have received me with warm, loving and open arms and rallied to support and protect me. The financial and  logistical aspects were the most intimidating to me and it’s going to be tough for a while but I’m going to be better than okay! Now I’m opening up to you. This isn’t the only abuse I’ve suffered in my life, and my old therapist told me she believed it was my mission to share my strength and light with others to inspire them and show them that change is possible. I hope that by sharing this, I can reach even just one person who is going through something similar and show that they are not alone, and they are not weak. People with certain backgrounds may be more vulnerable to abuse, but it can happen to anyone. It thrives in darkness, shame, and isolation—and breaking that silence is the first step toward freedom. Leaving is the scariest thing I have ever done but I have so many angels around me, and I am endlessly grateful. Thank you for being here with me 💌

@taterhole

Mar 16, 2025

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Never changing

My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌

@taterhole

Feb 23, 2025

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Finally Quitting the job that you hate

Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅

@taterhole

Feb 27, 2025