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I get crushes on people easy. I sort of imagine a life with someone only after thinking about them a couple times. right now I have about four crushes, but I think it’s my want of a relationship, so so bad. Equally I do not admit feelings for people. I would rather encourage someone to get in a relationship with someone else than admit my feelings, it’s like tending to an overgrown garden.
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Jan 24, 2025

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I feel the same way! I find myself building a relationship in my head with a person I have said 2 words with. Which usually, if not alway, makes things worse as I then picture them in a good light. I usually find that the more I get to know them, the more this feeling goes away.
Jan 24, 2025
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Having a crush takes over my life!!! It becomes the main thing I think about and I also feel extremely silly. I wear nicer outfits in case I see them, and that's usually when I try out new hairstyles. I become a lot more giddy and giggly and I get so many butterflies that I lose the urge to stress eat and eat just because I'm bored. I also daydream and wonder if they like me back or if I'm overanalyzing every encounter we have. It's so fun having a crush because it makes my life so much more interesting and exciting, but then I think about it too much a,nd I can't read or watch TV or do anything because it will all remind me of them! Do I wish I had a crush right now? Yes. When I get one, will I wish I didn't have one? Also yes.
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