Iām recovering from a health scare, and Iāve been outsourcing all of the āessentialsā that I canāt maintain on my ownā eating is essential, cooking is not, so I bought a massive quiche from my neighbourhood bakery and have been eating that.
Iāve had to orient around what my body can do right now, and what makes my body feel safe, and thatās felt very decadent. I had a friend over for brunch and just got a ton of pastry deliveredā I got quality time with a friend, and didnāt have dishes after. Iāve asked someone to come water my garden, and leaning into relationships is always really affirming; remembering that safety and wellness are group projects, and that I can call in my community, has been really good.