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I'm in the process of discovering I'm perhaps more girl than I thought when I came out as non-binary, so I've been trying to get as many trans women on my social media, tv, books, music, pods, etc. to get a variety of role models and combat this pressure we get sometimes to look cis or to pass. I try to aspire as little as possible to be like cis girls and instead look at trans girls be beautiful.
I'm happy to report it's been very successful, I am getting the desired effect. Transfemmes are SO beautiful and I think they are very cute when they are proud to be clocky, when they're like "yeah I'm trans and I'm so cool and sexy for it." Now I'm learning from them how to love my clocky features and I LOVE taking pictures looking clocky!!!
Try to give yourself love at every stage of your transition!!! Surround yourself with trans folks who inspire you!!! It's difficult for us rn and we need every bit of love and celebration we can get!!! My celebration: TAKING CLOCKY PICTURE!!!
This is my favorite one recently 🫶🏼🏳️⚧️🥳
Jan 28, 2025
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take pictures of yourself! you are beautiful! look back on how you have changed! admire your unique characteristics!
you are loved <3
Feb 3, 2025
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Every body is beautiful and taking shots of wild poses in your birthday suit is a wonderful way to express that
Jan 23, 2024
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this is a self rec because I get SOOOO in my head about how I look all the time that I sometimes have to fully leave the function — in large part it’s a dysphoria thing. But then I look in the mirror when I get home and i see I’m eating and I’ve been eating all day, and no way anyone was looking at me and thinking how ridiculous I look. So yeah look at yourself!!
4d ago
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New follower? OOP! Does that men we're getting married?
You re-rec'd me? You want me so bad let's make out.
The baddies wanna be mutuals? What if I cum about it? Much to consider...
PI.FYI dating-app mode when???
Oct 15, 2024
My last break up left me feeling super neglected so I got together with a friend and we went to the beach together. I cooked for us and she drove. We spent the day there and it was just so nice to be under the sun and to feel the wind on my face and under my dress. I pretended to be a middle-age divorcé who leaves her family to feel young and free again by the beach, smoke, read, drink, dance, and flirt with hotties.
None of that happened ofc, we just went to the beach and ate home-made burgers, but having a friend to entertain my delusion and hang out at the beach was equally as healing. I will bever forget that day
Mar 16, 2024
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A little personal, but being non-binary, I grew up very dissociated from my body and my time, so I don’t remember a good chunk of my formative years and have retained none of my hobbies. Recently tho, I have been trying to piece myself back together, so I have been spending a lot of time on my own. Another thing about me is that I have crushes everywhere I go, so I spend a lot of time loving others. After breaking-up with an ex that made me feel very neglected qnd unappreciated, I decided that I was going to give myself as much love and attention as I give my crushes and lovers. This has changed me.
I just let myself feel my feelings and get carried away by them. I get myself little treats and flowers, I get myself little treats and gifts. I organize little fun dates/plans for myself where I engage in new hobbies. Small manageable things that don’t feel too overwhelming to learn, like decorating Altoids tins with collage or journaling. By letting myself navigate the world through my feelings, I’ve discovered what I like, dislike, and developed little rituals and habits that I can then tell other about and share.
Social media has helped me that way, surprisingly. I treat my instagram like a scrap book and use it to document my feelings with shitposts and photos; the visual story telling makes me appreciate the little things. Pinterest allows me to collect things I like and develop a taste with no effort and no consequences, and I end up with huge pin boards full of pictures and art I love and that make me feel particular things I can name and explore. This app has been good for that too.
It takes time, love, self-compassion, and trust. Trust that the love others give you is legitimate. Trust that you are liked for a genuine reason. Trust that the mundane is magical by itself, love it for that. Trust that you don’t need to be special to be worthy of love, you can just be a person and that’s really cool <3
Mar 11, 2024