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accepting help
it’s hard at first but then it makes your life so much easier! judgement, from both inside and out, is such a big mental barrier - but once you’ve started to overcome it even once, it becomes so easy to be kind to yourself. people exist in a way that to live means we must need each other. needing more doesn’t make you any less of a person, rather it makes you more connected in the process. care creates closeness and our vulnerabilities are what bring us together.
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@spiky
Jan 29, 2025
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i did something scary (that was in my best interest) yesterday that I’ve been mentally hyping myself up to do for MONTHS, and it went great! i’ve been taking baby steps towards this and working through my mental hesitancy in the meantime, but i think it’s really important to remember that fear SO much bigger in our heads
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