Sexuality is a spectrum that I believe can shift from year to year, month to month, even hour by hour. how can you be sure of what you want? I know I’m not. Maybe that’s a personal problem though. Much to think about. Gonna go read through the lesbian master-doc for the third time and figure out If I even like men.
starlet do you really gotta know tho, sometimes loving people is just a vibe and your relationship with each person can be it's own thing, who cares about boxes, I like being bi because my attraction has range but I like everyone different
starlet then don't label it! I also go with queer sometimes, more flexible, but if you don't like the labels just refuse. I mean who's even asking anyway and do they have a right? If they are interested the better question would be are you interested, not hey do you vaguely like this gender I associate myself with. Idk if this is making sense but be unafraid to be like "uh what's it to you? I am a person of the people, are you flirting?"
I've posted about this once before and will post about it again, I'm sure. One of the things that I have noticed since getting letterboxed last year is how afraid people are to admit they like something. that new animated k-pop movie on netflix made me notice this again when three of the people that I have on there prefaced their reviews with a variant of "i consumed this ironically, but it was actually kind of good..."
...LAME... and a little bit pathetic to see tbh.
We really need to remember that you only live once. just fucking enjoy the stuff you like, and stop asking the world for permission and acceptance to do so! being so afraid of what others will think when you post a review under a kid's movie is more cringe than admitting you like a kid's movie.