it's actually so cringe and not charming at all to try. The people who don't get it won't get it anyway, and you'll just erode your own minimal sense of self respect by even trying.
Let them crucify you. Martyrs are always remembered.
sometimes people gotta figure shit out for themselves. they've gotta do the metamorphosis. understand their failings on a fundamental, life-gripping level. kinda evil tho? idk pondering
it makes me feel like tearing my skin off in chunks. i hate it with a passion. especially when people choose to willfully misinterpret you because the self righteous euphoria that they get from feeling like theyโre right is more important than actual human communication. im practically vibrating with anger right now it feels like iโve swallowed a bee. anyways.
be kind
love others
never attribute to malice what can be attributed to incompetence
the world is so much bigger than the palm of your hand.
eye contact and genuine inquiry is a great start. Turns out everyone has a soul and is basically you in a different form, so theyโre actually quite fascinating and lovable. Give it a try.
10/10 would recommend. just comes so damn naturally. magnetizes the people to you who will actually appreciate you for who you are, instead of who you pretend to be. repels the people who'd force you to fake it. It's bullet proof, imo.
I love temperate weather. i struggle with style-less beach flop sorts. Nice is Parisian chic meets beach vibes. of course the French did it best. yes forever.