i’ve worked in the arts for my entire career, mainly in art museums. i’m also an independent curator and ran a gallery out of my storefront apartment for a year and a half. i’ve archived photographs, led museum tours, curated exhibitions, couriered art across the country in an 18-wheeler, written wall texts, edited books, interviewed artists, fundraised, done countless studio visits, written exhibition essays, provided accessibility for disabled visitors, built a curatorial practice around working with disabled artists, project managed performances, and participated as a performer in a couple of pieces (including a Tino Sehgal). i am immensely proud of my work and have done and seen some incredible things. i’ve also worked with incredible passionate people who have the privilege and honor of making culture. but I’m also very burnt out and currently in the midst of plotting a departure from the art world, in search of a job that provides more balance. my whole job as a “museum worker” has been my identity for 14 years and I’m curious to see what my life looks like next. i’m mediating on and grappling with the idea that we weren’t put on this planet to labor, which compounded with the effects of lockdown and the pandemic, has changed my relationship to work and having a linear career. life is too short and too precious to give all of ourselves to a job (hope that doesn’t make me sound far out or too radical). right now I’m working with a career coach, doing informational interviews, playing with my resume and cover letter formats, and applying for a wild array of non-art / non-museum jobs. I’d love to hear if you have any insights or suggestions! it’s scary making the leap but I’m trusting my gut here.
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Feb 15, 2025

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Museum work can be so rewarding but it really does require so much personal sacrifice. My time in the museum world was a fraction of yours, just two years working at a tiny 6 person museum in the pandemic straight out of college. I learned a lot and worked my way up from the front desk to museum and community programing, bookkeeping, donor relations, collections management, etc. It was incredible to feel like I “made it” in my desired field right after graduating but it took so much from me by the time I left I was so completely burned out. So many weekends and evenings in my 20s sacrificed to run webinars, work events, openings, etc. I loved my fellow young coworokers but those at the top were, as my therapist said, “pathologically disordered” and made my life kind of a nightmare. I also made a terrible wage, had virtually zero benefits, worked many more than 40 hours, and had no work life balance (lived two blocks from the museum and always had to go over to check the alarm since I lived the closest). My final straw was looking forward a decade or so and realizing the upper cap for salary was pretty low and that many of the successful women I knew in the field had either A. a ton of external financial support from a wealthy spouse or B. sacrificed any social/home life to reach their success. Ultimately I was interested in curation and the museum director (a fellow white woman) told me there was no longer any space in the world for white female curators which is neither here nor there, but very dispiriting for a 25 year old to hear. Long story short, after leaving that job I got a remote tech sales job and almost tripled my salary overnight and had unlimited PTO and incredible benefits. I stayed there for two years and it had its ups and downs but I had so much more time, energy, and money to live my life outside of work. I left that job recently for personal reasons and now work at a vineyard and make very little money but am loving my job and it is truly the healthiest work environment I’ve ever been in. I wouldn’t trade my museum time, I met some incredible people and have so many funny/bizarre/tragic stories but I can’t foresee going back. I love museums and prefer to enjoy them as a patron. Anyway, sorry for the rant and lack of advice but my time was such a fever dream I’m very curious to hear about your time in the arts and what exactly was your final straw? Thanks for reading if you made it this far lol
Feb 15, 2025
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worldonfire we should connect!! I have a feeling we have a lot of similar / parallel experiences… I’ll DM you and we can keep the convo going! ❤️‍🩹
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