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here are some of mine:
— bad memory / forgetting things easily
— laughing at inappropriate times
— very materialistic
— superficiality: obsessing over appearances and beauty
— jealousy and envy
— self loathing / self obsession
— hyper independence
Feb 15, 2025
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FAVS:
- ladybugs
- red nail polish
- framed art/picture collage walls
- 8-bit/16-bit graphics
- the 80’s
- sci-fi
- lipstick stains on coffee cups
- obnoxious keychains
- enthusiasm
- pea green
- fitted flowing dresses
- film photos
- cinnamon gum
- peppermint mocha
- empathetic men
- zero fucks women
- tattoos
- children who play outside and draw
- my younger self
- intimidatingly large trees
- climbing trees
- live folk music
- open mic and trivia night
- sober people
- leopard print
- rockabilly
- mutual respect
UNFAVS:
- picky eating
- lust
- the world is money
- ads/commercials
- a blank schedule
- the damn phone
- hyper-engaging content/media
- selling out
- porn/perverts/sex pests
- hyper-sexualization of women
- hive mind politically correct mentalities
- AI
- parents who give their kids iPads
- trends based on illnesses
- the death of comedy and authenticity
- thinking everything is cringe/embarrassing
- thinking everything is offensive/illicit
- pubic hair constantly growing
- slugs
Apr 11, 2025
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In:
- shenanigans of sorts
- embracing the bad aspects to ur music taste (i happen to LOVE “lips of an angel“)
- sharing
- caring
- being happy
- speaking ur mind (when appropriate)
- cute pamper nights
- a very good skincare routine
- taking notes
- weird shoes
Out:
- overthinking
- being a snob
- constant bed rotting
- tardiness
- being sad
- oversharing to people u just met (please stop))))
- skipping lectures
- giving lectures
- judgement
Jan 11, 2025
Ins:
· Free museums
· Loving your friends loudly
· Growing food at home
· Late nights making art
· Photobooths
· Tipping your servers and delivery drivers well
· Listening to a single album or artist at a time
· Movies filmed on 35mm
· NPR
· AO3
· Reading multiple books at once
· Snail mail
· Having a signature color
· Reading the credits
· Physical media
· Local coffee shops and bookstores
· Occasional drunk cigarettes while still claiming you’re not a smoker
· House shows
· Criterion channel
· Handmade gifts
· Third places
· Media literacy
· Eating whole apples
Outs:
· Podcasts about nothing
· Labeling everything as a hyper-specific aesthetic
· Overconsuming media to the point where you aren’t even paying attention to or understanding the content (I’m looking at you 150 goodreads goals, letterboxd warriors, and 3x audiobook listeners)
· Intellectual snobbery
· Capitalism
· Depop resellers
· Vegans who judge non-vegans
· Trending audios that have absolutelye nothing to do with the video
· Not knowing how to cook
· Using ai, even when you’re bored or stuck
· Fighting to the death over celebs or authors who have no clue who you are
· Hating popular things just because they’re popular (you don’t look cool!)
· Nickle and diming your friends on venmo
· Dating apps
· Spotify's pre-made playlists
· Performative activism
· Oversharing online (please bring back secrets and keep your kinks at home)
· Monetizing your hobbies
· Colleen hoover
· Clean versions of songs
· Refusing to have strong opinions on anything
· Making smoking pot your entire personality
· Vaping
· Self help books
Jan 4, 2025
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