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A constant trap that I am breaking free of
Feb 16, 2025
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It is very easy to get in your own head when you want to try something new, or you want to change something in your life. Sometimes the biggest obstacle to doing something is the belief that you aren't allowed to do or be something outside of peoples expectations. Whether its a little thing like getting something different than your usual at a cafe, or something big like changing careers, you need to stop obsessing over invisible rules and expectations and just do it. You're freer than you think you are.
Aug 28, 2024
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I change my appearance multiple times a year. I cut my hair and dye it. I try new styles. I get tattoos and piercings. I try new food. I do things for ME. I want to find my true self and interests and each day I get closer to who I really want to be. I feel I learn something new about myself everyday even if itβs small. (Iβm depressed + anxious too and it can be so hard but I remind myself that I canβt care about everyone else and their opinions I need to do what is right for me. and no it is not selfish to do things for you).
Apr 9, 2025
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it is so freeing to not have your ear to the ground of what is on trend or hip for the time being, and tbh I have saved myself a lot of time, money, and perhaps sanity for just not leaning into being too plugged in, some tangible examples:
- no flimsy impulse purchases, mainly tangible well made things (clothing, electronics, furniture)
- reading very little, but just enough news to know whatβs going on, avoid entertainment news/snark/discourse machines
- do things cause I feel like it (dance, laugh loudly, smile) and enjoy it all, never act like Iβm above it all
Feb 26, 2024
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don't know the answer to a question and I'm not gonna look it up
preferring to live in a cloud of mystery and wonder. hypotheses only
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