Yesterday I made an ask where I touched on the topic of what people deemed as tacky, yet being normalized. I was expecting for people to come up with stupid and petty answers. They didn't disappoint. I was't counting on receiving at least three comments from people reflecting on the meaning of tacky as a form of "embarrassment" and determining tackiness as a form of showing hatred and disdain. Even though my ask had negative connotations, I personally think they couldn't be more wrong, hence the urgency of writing a piece displaying the exploration on tackiness and the nuances that arrive from it because I couldn't stop thinking about it.
Thank you for checking out my piece 🙂↕️ It’s been a while since I last wrote reflecting on something like this and it felt nice to come back to that and get to share it with other people <3
“It takes a lot of time and money to look this cheap, honey” — Ms. Dolly 🗣️ that’s a great point that tackiness is often something people do deliberately and intentionally to offend and provoke polite society, like John Waters!!
Then read my inaugural Substack post on emotional exhibitionism, where I wrote about a troubling and very normalized trend I noticed during my bleak year as a TikTok user. 🛌 💌
This was a fun one it was a little touchy trying to write about my experiences without being salacious and I don’t think my mom is going to like reading it but I hope you enjoy 🫶
in today’s substack adventures i reflect on the relationship between our fear of cringe and our lack of earnest engagement with the art we encounter, briefly touching on the discourse surrounding nosferatu, tumblr prose and the writing of ottessa moshfegh