Nor gay, nor a man but i truly think lisa vdp is thé icon from the real housewives! the audacity, the flair, the pink, the swans, the age gap, the accent, if she’s not iconic, who is?
journaling always helps me during a break-up. you can share your feelings/write them letters that you don’t need to send. make lists of things you want to remember/learn from the relationship. Write lyrics yourself or lyrics of songs that remind you of them.