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i miss this, haven't gotten invested in a fictional world to the point where i'm thinking about it when i'm not actively reading / watching / whatever what media do you find immersive enough that gives you that feeling? i think reading shorter books and watching more movies than tv is a part of it too, if i know it's going to end soon i don't spend the time to care about the characters as much miss this and want to get it back
Feb 22, 2025

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Check out the book Whale by Cheon Myeong-kwan! I semi-randomly picked it up from a bookstore and was totally consumed by it even days after finishing it. Made all my friends read it too. Feels like a grand magical realist historical narrative a la Garcia-Marquez but also like very primal storytelling.
Feb 24, 2025
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I love Ghost Story by Peter Straub it’s a massive book that I found very immersive I read it for the first time on a ten-hour road trip and didn’t stop until I was done. Very gothic and atmospheric and it came out at around the same time as Salem’s Lot but is far superior imo…
Feb 24, 2025
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BBC Sherlock, I'm so serious
Feb 23, 2025
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I struggle to get this feeling back too. Mad Men, East of Eden by Steinbeck, and Nickel Boys are some recentish ones that were so good it snapped me back into that headspace. Every Joy Williams short story gives me a mini hit of something close to that, haven’t tried a novel from her but Im guessing they will too when I get around to them
Feb 23, 2025
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personally, that lights a fire under my ass sometimes. i find character driven and plot driven media both have their places, but the former has helped me a lot in terms of self-exploration. the artsier/more eccentric, the better imo.
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I think a lot of us want to be able to read longer material, but our attention spans are fried for various reasons. For me, it was the fatal combo of doing a reading-intensive college degree that ate away at my time + social media brainrot + a high level of anxiety that makes me feel generally restless and unfocused. I used to be a huge reader, so I've tried jumping right back into reading long novels multiple times. This hasn't seemed to work in any lasting way. I've had more luck recently with starting small. Even if you set your goal as: "I want to read something longer than tweets or social media posts," it's progress! Zines, articles, Substack posts, anything just a little bit longer that your brain can latch deeper into will help rebuild your attention. Short story collections and novellas have also been helpful for me, especially if you pick a topic or genre that you're really interested in. I'm still on some forms of social media, so I haven't gone cold-turkey. But I do feel like incorporating longer-form material again, even mixed in with scrolling, has helped my brain so much already. It's refreshing to hand-select what I want to read and give my attention to, instead of letting an algorithm serve me topics. I didn't realize how much depth I was missing in exchange for the breadth of the internet!
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It's an escape but also not an escape Entertaining and stirring but doesn't leave me spiritually hungover
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