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iâve distanced my self so much from whatâs considered normal or traditional, honestly just to be a contrarian and live my niche kitschy life, but now iâm so used to being outside the norm, that now when i want to experience new/ different things, i do the most normal shit ever.
idk if itâs human nature, or just the beauty of life in general, but this experience has truly shown me that i can really be anything i want.
Feb 26, 2025
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I always felt alienated from people for not quite fitting in and all I ever wanted was to be normal. My therapist told me that thereâs no such thing and that I shouldnât compare myself to other people in that way because no two people have the same experiences, which felt like condescending gaslighting to me at the time but Iâve come to believe she was right.
Instead of chasing unattainable normalcy, Iâve started to see myself as extraordinaryâout of the ordinary. Itâs empowering to embrace my idiosyncratic nature and recognize that my peculiarities are what make me unique. So if youâve ever felt out of place, remember: being extraordinary means youâre living a life that only you can live đĽš
Oct 21, 2024
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THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS NORMAL. Stop trying to be something that you are not, stop trying to be copy-paste <insert substyle that you do not even really like you just don't know who you are if you are not following a trend> for the longest time, I had no identity, I didn't know who I was outside of micro-trends and what was popping off on the internet. I wanted so badly to be normal that everything I tried was slowly but surely killing my spirit. People are clay. We are covered in little fingerprints, little specks of dust, and pieces of lint. No one person is without these things. Normalcy implies that there is a standard, uniform way to mold clay. You can never be normal, and that is so beautiful that's what makes life so worth it. I tried so long to figure out the "normal" way to live life that I missed out on so many things my teenage years are over, and they flew past me. I spent so long trying to be a normal teenager that I forgot that the most important part of this age is trying to figure out who you are by yourself through your actions, through your memories, and through the people around you, not by following what is normal. I will never be normal, and I am so grateful, I will always be ME. My spirit will be unique. My mind will remain creative. I will never be normal, and I don't want to be.
Feb 22, 2025
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It would be hypocritical from me to say i donât follow trends, quite the opposite some of them can really be interesting and i âfollowâ them but i have no desire to fit in.
Everyday i embrace my soul, my heart and my mind because it took me years to be the Me of today and as an individual itâs totally normal to be unique in my own way.
I am unapologetically myself, no matter how much âtroubleâ it gets me with people i donât care. To be put in a box just to fit in or follow the ârulesâ was never something that i tolerated nor could handle.
I value self reliance and resent depending on someone
I am selective when it comes to socialising because i prefer being alone than having small talk
I question everything to be convinced before i accept it or do it
I am assertive, i express my needs, opinions and boundaries even if it means leading to a conflict with someone
I dont care about social pressure, i believe anyone can achieve anything at any age
I donât care about approval
I am always open to learn new stuff and never afraid to be seen as âuneducatedâ during the process
I donât wanna copy.
I am me, if i wanna read a kidâa book i will, if i wanna paint a tomato i will, if i wanna learn Russian i will, if i wanna wear a blazer with sweatpants because I think it looks good ON ME i WILL, me is ME and you is YOU.
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Jan 25, 2025
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Feb 24, 2025
to think that humans have been doing rituals to celebrate their gratitude for certain things in life since forever and we as individuals each have our routines and little rituals we do, like the certain motions we go through in the morning, the way, rythm and order of steps we take while showering, ive always seen this like little rituals we do everyday as silly over evolved apes that inhabit this earth
idk i just think itâs crazy, bring back big rituals, ceremonies and traditions to celebrate human emotion like we used to in the ancient times!
Feb 19, 2025
hello guys, first post here, very excited and happy to see what interesting things i find here, today i wanted to share with you an egg sandwich i tend to make on the morning that it's insanely tiktok pilled and tiktok food recipe video type shit. i kinda hate what tiktok food recepies symbolice and what they can do to ethnic cusines and such, but also i am a super victim of that lol. anyways heres todays breakfast.
might post the recipe to it later, maybe, idk, idk what can we talk about here or what we cant hehe lol #newgirl #smallgirlvsthebigcity #lol
Feb 18, 2025