physically I like a man with an air of refinement but also an edge bonus points if he looks like he could be and probably is my cousin it’s that deeply engrained aristocratic urge for inbreeding ;)
More importantly: curious, thoughtful, artistic, erudite, passionate, perceptive, irreverent, full of depth and complexity, eccentric, funny, unafraid to challenge me, as smart as or preferably arguably smarter than me which honestly is a nearly impossible bar to clear…
“There are two ways to reach me: by way of kisses or by way of the imagination. But there is a hierarchy: the kisses alone don't work.”
— Anaïs Nin
