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It’s so easy for me to get into my own head when it comes to my sex life. Having a group of girls who I can openly and honestly talk about sex with is truly so healing. Not to mention FUN! The “embarrassing“ aspects of sex start to feel less embarrassing when said out loud. The things i've always been scared to look up are all of a sudden easy to discuss. I don’t feel WEIRD!! Appreciate your friends and all the small (but big) ways they help you feel safe in being yourself.
Mar 2, 2025
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being vulnerable and open with ur very best friends while they say “exactly” is really healing imo
Apr 10, 2025
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This is something I've struggled with my whole life as I am very self-conscious about being a bother and burden on literally anyone, but friends are supposed to be there for you. So I opened up and confided in some of my friends as I really didn't know what else there was for me to do, and I'm so glad I did. I deeply appreciated and continue to appreciate their empathy, kindness, and support. It was a big help and now I'm able to get thru this week feeling much less shitty about myself, or at least know that I got my friends in my corner.
Looking to be better about this :)
Apr 29, 2024
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i've spent most of the year focusing on self-love and also valuing my friendships and putting the work and time into them... i feel better about myself than i have in years – i haven't really felt that loneliness from a lack of romance because i still experience intimacy in a different way. we go for dinner, to the cinema, to exhibitions, have little holidays and sleepovers... but now that i do feel so great, i feel like i've unlocked a new version of myself that's a bit more flirty and carefree lol. my friends are great and beautiful, and it turns out their other friends are too. as long as there's no history or anything you're complicating, i vote to have a look around and get to know your friends' friends!
Nov 12, 2024
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I love being an outfit repeater. I love when my clothes start to feel roomy & slouchy. I love when I notice the fabric color fading. I love when my jeans fray & the denim starts to break open on the knees. I love it when my clothes show that i’ve lived.
Jan 18, 2025
I found her at a family gathering about 7-8 years ago. The previous lady who was taking care of her & a colony of feral cats moved away, leaving her without a consistent food source. She hung around me the whole day, soaking up the sun from a lawn chair while occasionally stealing some of my mac & cheese. That day I ended up taking her home, now she’s my whole world. Since then, i’ve started studying all things cat (especially feline behavior), working at animal shelters, occasionally fostering, & volunteering at other animal shelters + different pet retention services. She’s taught me so much & has given me the motivation to be better everyday. I don’t know what i’d do or be without her.
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