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idk if this is unpopular or not but
i think we need to more genuinely care about people. so much of how we interact with or rather criticise people nowadays is excused by simple âcaringâ about someone meanwhile itâs the rudest comment ever. if you really cared about someone in a genuine kind sort of way you wouldnât say something to insult someone. basically what iâm referring to is the commenters on instagram reels or tiktok on random peoples posts doing like completely unrelated stuff then theyâll just out of nowhere say something like âthis isnât healthyâ or any comment related to their weight or how they look. and theyâd excuse themselves in a way as if they were looking out for the person and warning them of health risks when theyâre really just being horrible and wanting an excuse that makes them seem nice and caring.
unprovoked unkind comments on someoneâs looks or weight will never be âcaringâ, you donât know this person!!! i think to be caring you need to consider someoneâs feelings and i donât mean acknowledging that someone might get upset about a comment you make, but acknowledging and caring that what you say might upset them so not saying it
1. because itâs unkind
2. unneeded
3. not considerate or empathetic.
Mar 4, 2025
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this!! compliments have become so backhanded, even in real life. iâve never been the type of person to be âjokinglyâ mean to my friends which means i always hear about it when people take it too far and someone gets hurt. the world is a scary enough place as it is, why canât we all just be nice to one another!!
Mar 4, 2025
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I donât mean this in a letâs enforce toxic positivity way. And maybe this sounds simple and obvious but Iâve learned from my own experience and observations that it can be off-putting to others to always be complaining, criticizing, or saying negative things! It can really bring the energy down whether itâs in interactions with close friends, significant others, family, coworkers, dates, or strangers and it doesnât make people feel good.
This isnât to say that you should never have critical thoughts, engage in difficult conversations, or share your heavy emotions with people you trust. but I think this is something people can do without even realizing itâs a pattern for them and it has an effect on your own psyche as well imo⊠and it feels great to bring a little light into someoneâs day đŠïž
Apr 19, 2024
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The internet has truly ruined the relationship between hot people & non-hot people. You used to only get roasted by people who were high 8âs / solid 9âs / perfect 10âs. Now itâs anyone with an internet connection thinking they can critique you + your takes. Itâs concerning.
Like if I post a song and a 9.2 tells me that itâs bad? Immediately I think âMan, maybe I should reconsider this entirely.â But when a 4.5 gets a little burst of bravery and tells me that the song I posted was bad? Iâm sort of embarrassed for them. And a little grossed out. Who let them be on the internet? Why did they think their profile pic was a good idea? Why does it feel like I need to take a long shower to wash off the effects of being in (internet) proximity to them? We have to restore the balance of only letting hotter people speak down to you.
Some suggestions:
1. Know your hot # and stay in your lane. Itâs embarrassing if you try to comment or sass someone thats much more attractive than you :/
2. If you want to roast more people then maybe get hotter? Idk? Drink more water? Get those 10k steps in? Do that thing where you make your jawline more visible? Read a book? Meditate? Do some yoga? Put all the energy you have pent up for roasting and apply it to becoming more attractive.
3. If you arenât hot enough to roast people and you donât want to get hotter, then take yourself over to Facebook. That wasteland is a free-for-all and it seems like the hotness scale is nonexistent there anyways.
Hope this helps!
(Per usual, read this with a healthy slab of sarcasm & satire. And if you take this seriously and it offends you, go back to point #2. Youâre giving low 5âs energy.)
Sep 5, 2024
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why be negative when you can be positive. If you see someone do something dumb just ignore it (unless itâs especially funny then you can share it with friends another time).
We only live once so best to focus on the positives. When youâre nice to others you feel much better yourself. And everyoneâs constantly learning, making mistakes anyway so while other people may seem uninformed sometimes, you also will be at points and you wouldnât want to be ridiculed for that.
As for others being negative, just nod along and ignore. Or try to change the topic.
Jan 28, 2025
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