No matter where you go, human tribalism will follow. If you don't immediately see the value of the lily white/wannabe hipster egalitarian-but-holier-than-thou niche community so well curated here, you don't belong.
Mar 8, 2025

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I think that’s an uncharitable reading that ironically enough comes across as very holier-than-thou
Mar 8, 2025
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@STEELYFAN1998 Bro, I'm here ain't I?
Mar 9, 2025
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Brutal but possibly true
Mar 8, 2025
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INDIE SLEAZE is y'all's last chance to make whiteness seem cool. I’m personally over it, the white supremacy is out. I’m gonna assume anyone trying to revert back or revive these aesthetics has no swag or sense of self or personhood. It's past irony, it's white supremacy. It’s not post-anything also. It’s exclusionary cuz whites feel excluded from the current convo so they decide to dress alike and dive deep into anglo-aesthetics. It’s boring, it’s obvious, and it’s over. Book more Black people for your parties instead, at least there will be some sort of cultural ethos.
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the social internet (and rapid, inescapable commercialization thereof) makes it so that you are what you consume, not what you do, not where you go, not who you spend your time with. before if you bought the clothes or the gear without doing it or without being in community, you were a poser. if you monetized or commercialized that interest and put those incentives over expression and connection, you were a sellout. but that doesn’t exist anymore — democratization and anti-gatekeeping as both ideas and ends of an algorithm to maximize surface area for consumption have made it so that there isn’t a distinct authority on what you can attach to your identity or how you express yourself but if the extent of our agency in a democratized landscape is to only to consume more instead of producing or connecting, or to produce only to commodify ourselves for money or internet points, then maybe it’s a different kind of ā€œbeing influenced by social trends rather than authentic interestā€ than going to a skate park, or an open mic, or a restaurant, or whatever because we heard about it somewhere and wanted to check it out, and de-centering the internet from what we see on it and how we engage with it is a way to make that healthier or more generative for ourselves, and can create beauty without immediately thinking about how to fit into a box along lines drawn by advertisers
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