Rec | HOW TO GET OVER THINGS IN LIFE????????????????

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HOW TO GET OVER THINGS IN LIFE????????????????

No but genuinely how does one get over people, memories and friends who hate you.

@tiramisu

Mar 11, 2025

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@aspensunlight

time

Mar 11, 2025

@leswiener

Don’t cry because it’s over smile because it happened. That’s what I like to say Sure you had so many good memories with someone, but remember the underlying message in between all those memories, and why that person let you go

Mar 11, 2025

@Rattlesnake

you live life, and time passes and new memories are created and new people will come around and you change and then one day you see something or hear something that reminds you of the past and you realise, damn, you never get over things. Hope this helps :)

Mar 11, 2025

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@0h2eddie

Mar 28, 2025

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CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH ONE

Honestly, it sucks especially because this was my “best” friend, but I’ve just had to go cold turkey. I’m already not online much, I get on here as my only social media really lol, but I still muted her stories so I don’t accidentally open them. I love journaling, if you don’t already you could definitely try that! Some people say the first good vent you journal about is when you really start journaling authentically so maybe it would be a cathartic release for you and also good timing to start. Start doing more in your real life and not online. I feel like when we get our faces out of our screens and in the sunshine it can make us so much happier, which sounds like that cheesy advice everyone hates to hear but it’s true. Spend some time outside, walk in nature if you can. Come back to old hobbies or find some new ones. Enjoy yourself outside of the social media bubble where you might see memes or posts that you would’ve sent to your friend previously and now are only a reminder. Learn to enjoy spending time with people other than them or with just yourself again!

@saylor

Jun 8, 2025

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Time, space and thought

For starters, don’t do anything right now. Don’t do anything at all. Don’t try to talk to them about it, don’t break up, do nothing. You need to make sure whatever you do, it’s not a reaction from the hurt and embarrassment you feel right now. I don’t know the specifics of your situation, so I’ll try to keep my advice general. Talk to the most level headed person you know about the issue, what you’re feeling and ask them what they think. Whatever they think, you need to decide if you’re willing to stay with someone who doesn’t like you the way you like them. It’s unlikely that you’ll be able to “convince“ them to like you more. If you do want to stay with them, consider taking a step back from the relationship and giving only as much effort as you’re given. As for feeling better, try going out with some friends and just hanging out. You need to remind yourself that you are a kind and interesting person that people like to be with. Anyways I hope you feel better :)