no def like you might think i don’t wanna tag along cause it’ll be “boring” but let me come and we’ll have the time of our lives. it’s the “boring” things in life that i wanna be part of
on a whim, my friends and I hung out before work. One friend had slept over and drove me around as I ran some pre-work errands that I needed to do before a trip. Ended up with a 3rd friend joining and us bopping around our city. I made it to work on time and had already had a fair amount of laughs before 9am. For those with a boring desk job, maybe this could radicalize a generation. Life is about hanging with friends perhaps!!!
this idea of "you don't owe anyone anything" came about through the social media therapists that try to diagnose complete strangers with a multitude of issues and complexes. all it has done has made selfish people more selfish and divided us as a community. you do not owe everyone everything, but if you consider yourself part of a community, a society, you do owe everyone something. at a base level you owe people kindness, respect (as long as they haven't lost the right to it), and basic human decency. you owe your loved ones even more. stop being selfish and rude in the name of treating your so-called "people pleasing."