Real, but if these connection can grow into something that will get ur rocks off, its also rlly good... But growing connection should be a priority obviously
If your life revolves around getting your rocks off, you need to reevaluate your life. Go into nature, read book, smoke a blunt, do new things & meet new people like salsa classes. That’s what makes life better for me, sex is nice but it’s not everything. It’s more than just connecting physically, remember youre much more valuable than what your physical appearance may look like.
Cuddling should not be reserved for only situationships, relationships, cruise ships! There is nothing nicer than a couch cuddle with a friend while rewatching GIRLS for the 10th time
my high school/early college gf is one of my best friends and will be forever. we had a wonderful friendship before we dated and after taking some time of no contact built back an even stronger platonic bond. especially since we were close during such formative years it’s been so rewarding to grow together - out of one form of connection and into so many others❣️
my other serious ex I may never speak to again before I die.