both of these are better played with groups!
for spoons, the ultimate goal is to get 4 of the same card as fast as possible — but there‘s a bit more to it.
using a regular deck of cards, each player starts with 4 cards, and placed in the centre of everyone (reachable for each player.., this will make sense i promise) are spoons - one less than the number of players.
the person starting grabs a card off the top of the deck and quickly decides wether or not to keep it based on the hand they currently have. if they keep it, they swap it out with a card they don’t want to keep and slide it (face down!) to the next player. if they don’t keep it, they simply slide the card to the next player. this should be done as fast as possible! when the passing-of-the-card-loop reaches the last player, just start a new “deck” (which if the the game goes on long enough, will be re-used by the starting player)
if you are able to get 4 of the same card, congrats! now you get to grab a spoon from the middle. you can do this as blatantly or as sneakily as you want. once people notice a spoon is being grabbed/missing, everyone has to grab a spoon as quickly as possible and whoever doesn’t grab one is OUT!
but other people can get 4 cards before you, so while playing make sure to watch out for any spoon-grabbers as you don’t want to lose the round by being to focused on your own hand!
dutch blitz has a bit more rules which aren't fresh in my mind, but since it’s a proper card game with its own special cards, you can fs google the rules or read them in the actual pack! it’s also fast paced and loads of fun.