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being in your mid thirties

when i was a kid i believed that being in your mid thirties was the sexiest and most appealing thing a woman could do. now, from the vantage point of that coveted position, i send my younger self warmest regards. i wish to let her know that she is right, and has much to look forward to

@kickinson

Feb 13, 2024

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It’s coming up for me this year

I’m very excited about it and it just feels right. I think women start reaching their peak hotness at age 40 and then continue to age like fine wine so I’m looking forward to that too. My plan is to start seriously attempting to grow up in some ways but we’ll see how that goes; I’m probably just going to extend my adolescence in other ways because I have the freedom to do that. Mostly I just keep thinking about how when I was a kid who were 30 seemed so OLD but to be fair it’s not my fault they were like balding. Or like I keep seeing that people I know from high school are parents or watching things and being shocked that the mom characters are my age 🤡 but I don’t know it honestly feels pretty meaningless and arbitrary to me to mark and judge my life using age as a measurement

@taterhole

Jan 9, 2025

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Age means nothing

When I was 25 I felt so old, like oh god a quarter of a century!!!! Then me at 28 looking back at 25 y/o me I though oh god she was a baby! So now I realise I’m going to keep getting older so the age I am is the youngest I’ll be moving forward. I’m now 33 and I feel the same as I’ve felt my whole life. All these years have only made me more experienced at life. Youth is overrated if you take care of yourself. Stop smoking, move more, eat better, manage stress, use sunscreen and tretinoin.

@yonearth

Jan 7, 2025

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i do not trust women who are not at least a little angry

Rage is such an inherently feminine trait and living with the subtle jabs and taunts at your mere existence should be enough of a reason to feel that anger. A woman who isn't angry is either submissive of her mistreatment or apathetic, both of which are not qualities I would want in friendships. So this is a rule I abide by. I may not necessarily only befriend people who explicitly call themselves feminists but i trust angry women more. A girl who cannot stand up for herself wouldn't do a great job at defending her friends, I believe.

@beadaboobie

Mar 24, 2025

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20

How was I so much smarter at 16? I lived in my own little bubble and rejected everything else that made me feel worthless. I stood up for myself more times than I can count. 20 means nothing. I am more confused than ever. I don't know why I take decisions. I fail at everything I do. I constantly search for what I once was.

@beadaboobie

Mar 29, 2025

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wear heels that clink

it gives you sm aura and the sound annoys the shit out of them. Its amazing how middle aged coworkers have nothing better to do but point out what footwear a 20 year old choses to wear

@beadaboobie

Apr 17, 2025