Sometimes when I get pissed off by a guy friend in a group setting I’ll remove identity privileges and start referring to them as “that guy” and act like I don’t know them Works best by loudly saying to others “is that guy bothering you” or my personal favorite “does anyone know if that guy is coming with us”
I’m too dear with lovely things. I keep the brooch my 2nd grade teacher gave me in a box, safe, and because of this I’ve never worn something I really like! I recently decided I needed to wear my brooch with the sweater I finished knitting this weekend. It made it feel even more special. :)