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I post 10 questions in my Discord group every Thursday. It’s a nice weekly ritual that encourages reflection and sharing with each other. Most of the people in the group don’t know each other super well, so it’s nice seeing what people have in common.
A lot of the survey questions out there are very outdated, so edit the questions or write your own for best results.
Apr 3, 2025
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being an adult can get real busy, and I don’t have as much time to see my friends anymore. our solution for this has become a regular debrief night every 1-2 months. here’s the structure:
- cook or order a meal together
- come in the comfiest clothes
- late at night is ideal
- prepare throughout the week by building a PowerPoint with sections for each friend detailing important updates/occurrences in their lives (I like to present mine as little stories with pics for reference)
- appendix at the end of the ppt of new friends, enemies, and everyone’s “OOO” dates so we can make plans accordingly
these nights have come to be some of the best memories for us, and is now something everyone in our circles knows about - anytime something happens, someone asks us “will this/I be in the debrief now?” it’s structured fun and a great way to stay connected with my people. highly recommend if you have the time!
(Pic for reference with faces cropped out)
Jul 10, 2024
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It is something so lovely to look forward to, And such a nice way to mentally mark time - Saturday mornings are for dnd with one friend group, Monday nights are for study group with another,,,, I find it so hard to be consistant with my friends but it feels so good
Mar 17, 2024
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maybe it’s a quick coffee chat or a 2hr dinner or just an arts and crafts sesh but i want to know about my friends lives! even with the busyness of life i want to make sure i set time aside to make sure my friends know i appreciate them. i’ve had way too many friendships just slowly fizzle out because we text every few weeks saying we should catch up and never do.
Feb 7, 2025
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I made a channel in my Discord friends group for asking for help. I wanted someone to help dye my roots and when she’s over, I’m lending her a ratchet strap to move a shelf. Another friend asked for help bleaching her hair and I’ll help her out.
And this is all just after one day!
Defeat capitalism by helping your friends.
Apr 4, 2025
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I picked up this tip in a TikTok comment section- if you like to watch ambient videos of fake coffee shops or rain on a window, play it on a YouTube kids account for no ads. I made an account under my dog’s name- Obvi.
Apr 4, 2025
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It really is so delicious. It’s probably my favorite coke ever.
Apr 8, 2025