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Ok donât be a little fascist about it but sometimes when ur hanging with/going to hang with people, everyone does the polite little âohhh I donât know what do YOU wanna doâ
I am someone who chronically doesnât wanna disappoint or force an action on a group (picking the movie, time, restaurant, etc) - however, as I get older, Iâve realized - itâs highly valuable to being around others to come through with ideas and, ultimately, a choice
Donât force it! Be open and listen! But the homies canât choose? Help move the hang forward - all will thank u.
Apr 11, 2025
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sometimes a great leader will step up before you can say a word. sometimes nobody will say anything and everything will crash and burn on its own. the best option in my eyes is to recognize the situation and do what will benefit everyone most, even if its not what youâd prefer the most
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It bums me out whenever someone's trying to say something but cuts themselves off or says "nevermind" because they assume that they're wasting time. Think it through, or let it come back to you. 3 years ago, I started saying, "Talk through the thought" with my friend, and I think it's made me more patient, and I've ended up hearing/saying some cool shit (or at least some funny shit) that I would've probably missed out on otherwise.
Feb 23, 2024
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even if it's annoying even if you don't agree even if it's aggravating sometimes you just have to let people say what they want and let it roll off you like water on a duck's back. there r situations where you should interrupt and challenge but more often than not you just gotta sigh and nod along as somebody at a party decides to unveil their "umm nickelback is actually an avant-garde musical project if u reframe it thru the lens of ironic fame" thesis while you're trapped in the hallway between the kitchen (where ur beers are) and the living room (where ur friends are)
Feb 17, 2024
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Apr 9, 2025
In the BBsâ tumultuous early 70s period, they decided to leave the Cali shore for - the Netherlands. They brought a whole entourage & reassembled a soundboard built for them in LA, leading to one of the most expensive records made at the time.
Stand outs are the moody and strangely heavy âSteamboat,â the mini rock opera âCalifornia Saga,â the rollicking âThe Trader,â and the closer âFunky Pretty,â a strange but tuneful pop song that only couldâve come from Brian Wilsonâs beautiful and deteriorating mind.
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This is Doug Martsch of Build to Spill and Calvin Johnson of Beat Happening duetting over scrappy, catchy emo garage rock
FFO: those two bands, Modest Mouse, Silver Jews, Smog
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