omg you havenāt seen that film? you havenāt heard that music? you havenāt read that book? THATāS NORMAL!!!! i feel like there is so much social pressure to consume whatever media makes you niche and unique and cultured and iām OVER IT. itās normal to have not seen every cool movie or show on the planet or heard every album to ever exist. consuming media is something that should be enjoyable and happen gradually over time, not something you force to meet arbitrary cool person standards. iām so done with feel a social obligation to consume certain things. iāll get to it when i get to it! let me have my taste, im okay with not knowing everything!