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was reminded of this app on instagram (ironic i know) & now that I’ve done a scroll on the feed I don’t know why I got rid of it in the first place
Apr 18, 2025
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you should get it, its rlly cool. Kinda reminds me of 14’ tumblr because of the crowd in the best possible way. Ever post is formatted like a music/movie recommendation, its rlly interesting def look into it
Oct 4, 2024
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been so busy packing the last couple days that i haven’t had time to go on this app
but that means i got the wonderful experience of scrolling through 2 days worth of recs this morning. what a great start to my day! i love this space
Apr 6, 2024
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i was going to get some work done but i keep opening this website instead. it somehow feels much more productive to scroll on here than it does on other social media sites
Jan 23, 2024
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I think 10 year old addy would’ve passed out if she’d known that she would come to own this in 13 years…you can take the girl out of bikini bottom but you can’t take bikini bottom out of the girl
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i know it sounds so cliché but i work for a climate organisation & i just came home from a work event so i’m feeling very inspired/energised/refreshed…please find your community because it is tiring, draining, & almost impossible to drive social change alone. you don’t have to do it alone.
A community helps your cause. We protest, meet, rally, & cry in numbers for this reason. 💜
Jun 29, 2024
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i really also think about how much boys are taught ways to perform masculinity & how it is legitimised through tangible things like building a career etc but with women i find that from a young age our identity, behaviours, & thoughts are always spoken about in relation to other people/things — gender roles within the family, how we’re perceived by men, our friendships with other women, our relationships with material things etc etc — and this shows up in the labels that women are often given too! so and so is someone’s daughter, girlfriend, wife, mother etc etc. i envy the freedom of boyhood so much, the freedom to just be (this is not to discount the toxicity of traditional masculinity, i just think that boys are still afforded more “play” and therefore have more opportunities to develop their sense of self).
maybe i am also biased because of how i’ve grown up & whatnot but i never really understood what it meant to quote unquote be a woman or perform femininity. i only saw this modelled within my nurturing friendships with women as i’ve gotten older but when i was younger, in church it was always “ok well don’t do this or that because x y z will happen to men if you do” or within my extended family it was often “are you seeing anyone? when are you having kids”. damn what happened to asking about how i’m doing or what my dreams are!!!
long rant sorry !! but that’s my long winded way of saying “i feel you” haha
Jun 28, 2024