I can’t tell you how many times I’ve reached out to someone on a whim and told them I’m appreciative for having them in my life or the value they hold in my life and most people’s first reaction is to ask if everything is ok or I need to talk about something. It’s almost like they‘re caught off guard by hearing words like this and can only react by assuming something is wrong..we need to be giving each other uplifting words more often and spread the love around
people should always know if you think that their hair looks good today, that they had a really good idea in the meeting, that their shoes are cool, that they are a good friend, that you love them etc.
don‘t assume they know - tell them!! tell them over and over!!! tell them your favorite traits!!! fall in love with your friends a little bit, it’s good for you
