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I have the strength to stand my ground

I can set boundaries with friends and say things bluntly without feeling bad. The constant pressure I put myself under in order to protect the feelings of others is unnecessary. I can't control them so why am I letting them control me? I can stand to be a bit meaner and to the point. I don't have to try to please every person I want to be closer to.

@juniperberry

Jun 22, 2024

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Learn to be selfish

This rec is for WOMEN only I think we’re often socialized to be over-accommodating people pleasers. If this describes you and you’re reading this I’m not telling you to become a narcissistic monster but I’m giving you permission to be a little bad every once in a while 😜

@taterhole

Dec 5, 2024

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STANDING UP FOR YOURSELF

Stop letting that person talk to you that way. It’s stupid hard, but continuing to be kind to people who aren’t kind to you is bad for your karma. Some people don't deserve your kindness and maybe they even deserve your meanness! Anyways, blocked someone today and am having complicated feelings but trying to hype myself up because they fucking deserved it!

@olaftheswede

Apr 8, 2025

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I HATE INSTAGRAM

there are so many dead accounts with good usernames being used and also all of the AI content is driving me nuts!!!

@thingsinlife

3d ago

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BEST FRIENDS FOR MANY YEARS

took us about 3 years to actually start dating, now almost at 2 years (: worth the slow burn !

@thingsinlife

4d ago

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PERSONAL STYLE

it’s so difficult to find a personal style!! What clothes do i wear what does it say an about me, will i be uncomfortable in an hour? As well I‘ll buy something that doesn’t suit anything else I own. I‘ll be scrolling pinterest forever till I figure it out.

@thingsinlife

1d ago