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āWhen someone you know wears an item of clothing you have yet to see, it makes you realize you really do not know them at allā
2d ago
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People that don't even know you exists carry a part of you
It could be a song, an advice, a joke you once said, your idology and even the way you act
you may be just a memory o the surface but deep dowb you are more than that, you are part of them now
Jan 16, 2025
Recently Iāve been focusing on feeding my soul and doing things for my spirit rather than for an external motive
*(Often times I will catch myself putting on an outfit or posting on instagram with only the intent of being recognized and validated)
we are individual people and seeking things outside of ourselves makes it difficult to be happy and feel content with our lives.
A few thoughtsā¦.
- doing art because itās enjoyable (not focusing on the outcome)
- wearing an outfit that I like, not what might be complimented
- taking photos because I want to remember the moment or because itās beautiful, not to post it on instagram
- listening to pop music because I enjoy it and I shouldnāt be worried that itās too āmainstreamā
If you canāt tell this is a common theme in my life- so Iām here to remind myself and the person reading this to refocus your perspective ā¤ļø
6d ago
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...apply that as needed. With every new connection lies the inevitable goodbye.
But everyone in the world is a little like and unlike everyone else. There is a wonderful sense of learning in that, and seeing how the patchwork of their personalities are inspired/evolved/derived from others-though it can be tiring to keep at it, which has become the sign for me to take a break, be with myself etc etc.
Aug 8, 2024
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4d ago
I love them- kind of like a window into someoneās life.
Especially when the people are much older and their houses are stamped with the time period. I was in one today that was insanely retro- straight out of the 70s
but then I found 2 wheelchairs next to each other- I got upset and had to leave
Apr 12, 2025
I tend to worry so much about what others think that itās blocking my ability to be creative and live life in the way we were intended to.
What I pin on Pinterest, what music Iām listening to, what I post on Instagram, what posts I like (bc my name could come up on the āliked byā) all feels so performative And like each thing I do is very strategic and thought out bc Iām worried it will affect someoneās perception of me.
this translates to my art too. Before Iāve even created something, Iām thinking about how it will be perceived when itās done- will people like it? Is it unique enough? Etc
I want to start doing things on account of whether or not it makes me happy, or if I think it looks good
Thatās why I donāt plan on sharing my picture or name on this account. I like the idea that I can share ideas and thoughts and random things with no physical appearance or preconceived notion attatched
All of this is very obvious- like yes I shouldnāt be doing these things for approval and thatās not what these apps were created for. Just something I struggle with and wanted to share
Apr 13, 2025