Thatâs kind of a gross oversimplification of it honestly, there are obviously good and bad sides to that (as actions tend to have consequences), but think of it this way maybe, you have much more agency and power than you think. Go for it. Just do it.
Do anything you wanna do. Whatâs the worst that could happen? Even the worst that could happen, you know how bad itâll actually be? It wonât. Itâll all be okay, just do things you want before you lose the opportunity to. plz.
If you donât define yourself by âwhat you doâ then you can comfortably try (and fail usually) at everything. Do what you love until you donât love it and then do something else. dont equate âwhat I doâ with âwith my lifeâ. If you have a canvas and you paint something and you say wow this is garbage, just paint something different! lifeâs only as serious as you make it out to be. Enjoy it and learn shit.
I donât believe in ranking things- restaurants, albums, books, movies, athletes anything, top x lists whatever. I think itâs a waste of time honestly. Even with a completely objective criterion whatâs the point. Would rather listen to and read people just talk about their favorite things and why they are special and meaningful to them- everyone has their own, interesting reasons. And this is a great place to do that!
