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if you ever have the opportunity to go with one of your parents to where they grew up, take it. you’ll hear things you’ve never heard before, see things they saw, bask in their nostalgia with them.
ask questions
listen to their childhood playlist
i believe we’re closer now than we were before we arrived.
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when you’re catching up or asking advice or fighting or putting up boundaries, whatever your relationship, play your parent a song you’ve been listening to a lot. even if they don’t get it, it’s a revelatory experience if you let it be
Apr 6, 2024
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idk how close you are, just start yapping. here are my fav things i’ve asked my mom:
did you ever question your career and what would you do if you didn’t do what you did?
what was your favorite halloween costume?
what did you do for your 21st birthday?
what do you fear?
do you hate anyone?
have you ever smoked a cigarette or had a lemon drop shot?
who was your favorite boyfriend (aside from past or current husbands)
if you got a tattoo what would you get?
what did pregnancy feel like? what did giving birth feel like?
do you ever regret having kids?
what was your fav music as a teenager?
if you were an animal, what animal would you be?
when you look at me, do you see more of your face or dad’s?
what was the first movie you ever saw in theaters and how much did it cost?
what was your favorite hair style you ever had? was it the perm?
what as the angriest you ever made your mom (my nana)?
if you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?
did you feel lost in your 20’s?
do you feel lost now?
do we ever feel older or do we just get older?
Feb 24, 2025
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And listening to them tell you stories about when they were young <3
Apr 19, 2025
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every time i go to an estate sale i get closer to finding god.
looking through someone’s entire life and home feels wrong to some
but i think its beautiful! if people we love can’t live forever, their trinkets and memories can.
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let nick drake take you on a quick journey. with his ghostly voice and calm demeanor, take a drive on the back roads. pass a farm. a bridge. a cemetery. 28 minutes later and you feel more connected to whatever it is you felt far away from.
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