Rec | REC: DMING ME

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seriously though I don't know how to make the first step in making friends on here but my friends can attest that I'm cool 😭 I just need to get over my leaving comments anxiety but until then just know yall can message me if you're ever looking for someone to chat with 🙌

@soulful_old_man_sunshine

2d ago

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@bweckfist

I didn't even realize that there were DMs here lmao but I feel the same way! I'm super friendly, just full of anxiety! If anyone wants to be friends and just shoot the shit add me! 🤗

1d ago

@megh

Does anyone even use dms or am I just too uncool?

1d ago

@Rattlesnake

@MEGH hahaha i feel ya, i use them sometimes but not everyday

1d ago

@jrpaperstack

@MEGH completely forgot about them, I just post and comment. Which also tells you just how many I'm getting lol.

1d ago

@babyoblivi0n

@MEGH i feel like they’ve just been glitchy!

1d ago

@jilly

my dms have a permanent notification on it so i always think im cool and someone has messaged me, but alas, it is just a bug catfishing me and toying with my emotions

1d ago

@choc_orange

@JILLY MINE ARE THE SAME, or random blank chats with people, I never know what they mean

1d ago

@jilly

@JILLY YES THE BLANK CHATS my delulu ass is like “have they been stalking me”

1d ago

@choc_orange

@JILLY haha yes omg I’m like “wow did you wanna talk to me” 🤭🤭

1d ago

@jilly

@JILLY HAHAHA LITERALLY

1d ago

@softshelled

@JILLY some of mine have completely disappeared! or I‘ve sent a message to someone and it doesn’t show up in my chat list anymore. I‘ve also had to periodically go to someone’s profile to tap ‘message’ to check if they’d replied and to message them back also the first (and subsequent last) pic I sent in DMs was to @TATERHOLE I saw it *send* for a split sec, then it was wiped and yeeted into a group chat/thread that she was in but that I was definitely not in? so I guess she technically ended up getting it

1d ago

@taterhole

@SOFTSHELLED yeah I have a party group chat with every person who DMs me a photo 🕺

1d ago

@jilly

@JILLY it’s the beauty of being the beta squad 🤌🏼

1d ago

@choc_orange

@JILLY you guys can dm photos!??? 😀😀

1d ago

@softshelled

@JILLY variety is the spice of life etc

1d ago

@choc_orange

@SOFTSHELLED also the fact that a photo you sent ended up in a gc you aren’t in is a new fear omg 😭😭

1d ago

@softshelled

@CHOC_ORANGE right??? not that I’d send a risky pic on here, but the thought of pics in general breaking containment fills me with actual dread

1d ago

@choc_orange

@SOFTSHELLED its gotta be a ploy to deter us from sending risqué pics, surely? 😭😭

1d ago

@softshelled

@CHOC_ORANGE oh no, it looks like I can’t anymore?? The void was not satisfied, my pic sending privileges have been REVOKED

1d ago

@softshelled

@CHOC_ORANGE “oh that pic you sent where you thought your ass looked immaculate? yeah, this random gc is laughing at it you HARLOT, you JEZEBEL tainted by technological modernity”

1d ago

@choc_orange

@SOFTSHELLED I’ve never had it, the void didn’t even wanna give me a chance 😔

1d ago

@choc_orange

@SOFTSHELLED omfg I’m crying at this 😭😭

1d ago

@merel

Omg I didn’t even know there was a dm-function on this app haha

2d ago

@soulful_old_man_sunshine

@MEREL right?? the one time I did use it a while ago it was slightly buggy so I forgot about it lol

2d ago

@shrillhaus

this is the vulnerability I stand for

2d ago

@soulful_old_man_sunshine

@SHRILLHAUS social anxiety be damned, I can make a vulnerable post on PI

2d ago

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