I will get an idea to go somewhere, do something, reach out to someone, and flip flop for ages on whether or not to do it, weighing all pros and cons.. I try now to just decide yes if I’m flip flopping and usually it goes great!
Hey dude!! I see that you privately messaged me and I really wanna respond, but for some reason my convo send button is broken and J can’t reply. So I’m just commenting here to tell you that I see you and we can continue our conversation here if you’d like, or we don’t have to do anything at all whatever you want :)
i’ve been struggling with this lately too but what helps me is just going with my first instinct of what i wanna do when faced with different options. don’t overthink if it’s the best one, just go with what ur brain latched onto first bc it’s probably for good reason
For years now I have been making decisions both small and large based on a flip of a coin. To splurge on a nice meal or not, to send a risky text or not, to apply for a new job or not, all often decided with spinning metal. Heads has always signalled the rational, sensible, conservative choice as opposed to the indulgent and careless tails. This has served my indecisive ass well for some time now.
I simply love the library. I just moved to a new city and I’m looking for work and I can plop myself down in the library, go on my laptop and look for jobs, leaf thru some books, the membership gets me free tix to cultural institutions and free streaming, in my branch there is even a cute patio with comfy chairs to work outside! A blessing and one public thing US cities do really well
Recently in a situation that requires me to stand for long hours. This thing - $3.99 at world market - eliminated my foot pain. I am blown away by how good it feels